June Edition: The Obstacle That Changed Everything

Sometimes, the most radical act of self-love is simply telling the truth—to yourself.

For years, I wore resilience like armor. I was the high-achiever, the go-getter, the woman who pushed through anything. If things felt off, I’d try harder. Hustle more. Overcompensate until I convinced myself I was fine. On the outside, my life looked like it was going well. But in reality, I felt dead inside.

Then, at the end of 2020, life gave me no other choice but to stop.

Not only were we in the midst of a pandemic, but I had also created a running injury that led to a need for hip surgery. And suddenly, everything I used to escape myself—exercise, socializing, staying “busy”—was stripped away. Between the pandemic, being on crutches, living at home, and not being able to drive, I was forced to sit with my life exactly as it was.

And I didn’t like what I saw.

For the first time, I couldn’t bypass the truth: I felt behind, disconnected, and deeply unfulfilled. But instead of resisting it, I chose something different.

I surrendered.

Not in a defeated way, but in a way that felt strangely powerful. I immediately felt the energetic weight I had been carrying on my shoulders for so long finally be lifted. I accepted that this was where I was - even though it wasn't where I wanted to be. I knew I lost sight of who I used to be. But instead of turning a blind eye, or shaming myself for letting things get to this point, I decided to be present with this version of myself—right here, right now.

That moment of full acceptance was the beginning of everything.

✨ It cracked me open to deep emotional healing.
✨ It helped me break generational cycles in love.
✨ It aligned me with my Higher Self and allowed me to manifest from a place of worthiness, rather than control. From the Higher Self, rather than the ego.

Last week on the podcast, I shared the full story—plus the energetic formula I used to achieve full acceptance over my past (including the prior abusive relationship I had been in). This formula is what allowed me to shift timelines, raise my self-image and open the door to aligned manifestation.

🎙️ Episode 5 – The Energetic Formula to Full Acceptance
Inside the episode, I'm breaking down:

• The real reason you haven't been able to fully move on - whether it's from an ex, a friendship fallout, or a version of yourself you secretly still judge

• How bypassing your truth keeps you stuck in old cycles that recreate the past and will not allow you to create a new (and different) future

• Why emotional baggage blocks acceptance (and how to actually release it) and what full energetic acceptance really feels like

You’ll walk away with a powerful 3-step protocol to help you neutralize the past, reach emotional balance, and shift your perception of painful memories so you can finally break the cycle and manifest something new.

🤩 BUT because you are a newsletter subscriber, I am giving you the exclusive 3-step version written out to make it 10x easier for you to digest and immediately start implementing into your life. However, I still recommend you listen to the podcast because I explain the steps much more in-depth there.

The Love Energetics 3-Step Protocol to Full Acceptance:

✨Step 1: Neutralize the Emotional Charge

Before you can truly accept a moment, you need to neutralize the intensity around it. That means:

• Physically releasing stuck emotion through movement, breathwork, or body-based practices.
• Mentally re-circuiting your thoughts around the memory using tools like EFT tapping, journaling, or subconscious reprogramming.

Start small: Don’t try this on your most triggering memory first. Choose something “low-stakes” like the guy who ghosted you after 2 dates — then build from there.

• • This step dissolves resistance so you can start seeing the situation clearly.

✨Step 2: Create Emotional Balance Through Unconditional Love & Neutrality

Acceptance doesn’t mean pretending it didn’t hurt — it means being able to hold equal parts good and bad. This is where you bring in compassion:

• Ask yourself: “How did this experience shape me for the better?”

• Keep going until you genuinely feel grateful for it — so much so that, if given the chance, you’d live through it again just to gain the growth it gave you.

This is the foundation of self-love mastery. You’re no longer holding shame or guilt from the past — you’re honoring it and understanding that you did the best with what you knew at the time.

✨Step 3: Shift the Story You're Telling

True acceptance comes when you can rewrite the meaning of the memory — not from a place of denial, but from empowered responsibility:

• Release victimhood and reclaim your power by recognizing: “I played a part in this, and I now choose differently.”

• Find the deeper purpose. How did this redirect you? What did it awaken in you?

• When you can see a painful experience as a catalyst rather than a curse, it no longer has control over your future.

💬 “I had to take full accountability for how I attracted my past abusive relationship — not to blame myself, but to free myself. That’s when I reclaimed my power to choose again.” - Marea

 

🔁 Try This:

Choose one situation you’re still holding on to — and run it through this process. See how your energy shifts. Then do it again. Over time, this becomes your new normal.

Let this be your reminder: you are not behind. You are not broken. You’re simply in the middle of your becoming—and that’s sacred.

🩵🦋✨
With Love,
Marea

P.S. If this story resonates, listen to Episode 5 here and let it move through you. It’s one of the most powerful episodes I’ve ever recorded.

If you're ready to fully commit to your own radical self-acceptance and transformation journey, you can:
→ Book a Lucky in Love 1:1 Activation Session [link] to identify and release the energetic blocks keeping you stuck
→ Or apply for my 3- or 6-month Love Energetics Coaching Experience [link] for deep embodiment, self-image reprogramming, and soulmate alignment

Your next chapter begins the moment you say yes to the truth of where you are now. Let’s create your love story—from the inside out. 💫